I couldn't agree more...
This is an interesting post to me, because whenever my wife & I have visited Belize, the last thing in the world we wanted to do was hang out with other gringo patrons at our accommodations. The first time we were there was on our 25th wedding anniversary, and we went with her sister & her husband. It was their anniversary too, although we had 5 yrs. of married life on them. It was arranged by a travel service, and we partook of the typical "surf & turf" package. It was enough to allow me to see that there was a lot more to Belize & Belizean people than that venture allowed, so we went back again and again. Subsequently, we've stayed at the so-called lower end places which save us a LOT of money, as well as provided us with a more realistic picture of the place, and peoples.
Of course, being gringo's, we are defacto rich compared to most Belizeans; who among them can afford to flit about the globe to visit different places? So it stands to reason that we and others are hustled for money in a variety of ways, but since we ourselves can't afford to live it up like most western visitors on Ambergris Caye in a hotel with a swimming pool, we have found ourselves staying in much less expensive, and honestly more "real" places having an absolute time of our lives without being catered to by people we consider our equals, instead of servants.
Meeting people under these circumstances gave us a much better and realistic picture of Belize and belizeans than staying at some upper crust hotel could have ever provided. A bed is a bed, no matter where you find it. We don't spend much time in a room grooving on how soft it is, but if that is what spins the prop of others, I say go fer it. I myself don't feel comfortable in such places because I come from a family that could be considered a "have not" rather than a "have". My wife is amazed at how quickly I've been able to make connections and friends with the average Belizean, and I think that's because I don't consider myself to be above them in any way other than perhaps financially. People are people no matter what, and at the end of the day (or one's life) the true measure of a person can't be measured or calculated by their pocketbook.
If Belize didn't have the wide variety of interesting people it did, it would be just another place with a bunch of coconut trees. I'll never forget the time Deb & I were standing in line in the Belize bank in PG--there were women in smart business clothes with high heels, a rasta with bare feet, construction workers, gringo's, backpackers, queuing up behind velvet ropes while punta/reggae music played softly over speakers. The guard opened the door for all coming and going, and it was really nice that the air conditioning made the place feel like a meat freezer.
Belize is a wonderful place, & we can hardly wait to get back. Frankly, it's what keeps us going here, the idea that someday soon we're going to be able to do that again. No place is nirvana, but the wild imperfections of Belize, and the people, the beauty of nature there and all that happy crap is what sustains us here to keep on doing what we're doing so that we can realize our plan to maybe stay there someday. I really feel very much at home there. Pardon me if I sound like somewhat of a zealot or nutcase. This doesn't make much sense I guess when compared to other places, but to each his own.
I think that for a visitor to just hang around their hotel and not to visit the local fish or other market or bar is depriving themselves of a rich and varied lifestyle, but if that's what turns them on,that's OK too, because then I won't find myself in the position of having to tolerate them, or be embarrassed by their arrogant snooty attitudes, giving gringo's an even worse impression than they already have.
The pace of life in Belize suits me just fine. I don't need to be cuddled, pampered, or entertained by the hotel life. I know locals will always consider me an outsider, but that's OK with me too, cause I'll never be able to control what another person thinks. That's their problem, not mine. Thanks again for the post.
